Emotion regulation is not a luxury, it's a core life skill we can all learn. 

It is essential for healthy relationships, learning, and well-being, forming the foundation for resilience in the face of stress and for thriving personally and professionally.

We Are Enduring Unprecedented Times

Kids and the adults in their lives are navigating global conflict, the lingering effects of the pandemic, and a world dominated by technology. Our lives are being shaped in ways we are only beginning to understand. Rates of youth anxiety and depression increased 30% over the past decade, and nearly half of teens report persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness. This dilemma isn’t isolated to childhood.

One in four people will experience a mental health condition at some point in their lives. Leveraging skills like emotion regulation prevent mental health issues and promote well-being in the long term.

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An Emotion Education is the Path Forward

Research shows that most adults were never explicitly taught how to manage emotions, either at home or in school. In the last 30 years, we’ve learned that when kids and adults in their lives learn to recognize, understand, label, express, and regulate emotions, they can better handle stress, overcome adversity, and build healthy relationships. We call this set of skills emotional intelligence. 

Shaping a Healthier Society One School at a Time

At the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, we provideprofessional development for educators and preK-12 curricula focused on the development of emotion skills. Reaching people of all ages within a school community, our goal is to create a healthier, more equitable, innovative, and compassionate society. 

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Regulation Strategies

In Dr. Brackett’s book, Dealing with Feeling, he helps people build a toolbox of helpful regulation strategies to navigate life’s challenges and uncertainties. This gives us a sense of agency and confidence—powerful protectors of our mental health and well-being.

Quieting Your Mind and Body

 

Use breathing exercises to help you deactivate strong emotions.

Redirecting Your Thoughts

 

Shift your thinking from negative, unproductive thoughts to positive, constructive ones.

Strength Through Relationships

 

Connect with others who can support your emotional health.

Optimizing Your Emotion Regulation Budget

Focus on regular exercise, balanced nutrition, and good sleep to support yourself.

Book Club

Join one of Dr. Brackett’s Dealing with Feeling Book Clubs, where he will share how we can use our emotions wisely to achieve greater personal well-being and professional success.

For RULER Educators

Part 1: September 30, 2025 | 4 PM ET

Part 2: October 14, 2025 | 4 PM ET

For Leaders

September 25, 2025 | 11 AM ET

For Anyone

Part 1: September 29, 2025 | 7 PM ET

Part 2: October 6, 2025 | 7 PM ET

Part 3: October 13, 2025 | 7 PM ET

Events & Press

Praise for Dealing with Feeling

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